Erin Tillman, CSE is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. She is the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. She is currently serving on the SAG-AFTRA Sexual Harassment committee. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Champion Award presented by the California National Organization for Women (NOW). For over 10 years, she has been dedicated to making conversations and experiences around consent, identity, and allyship less taboo and more easily digestible. She has contributed to Lifetime, Buzzfeed, Elle Magazine, Men’s Health, Washington Post, and more. Erin also has worked in the tv/film business for almost 20 years, both in front of, and behind the camera and has a vast knowledge of the inner-workings of tv/film production, including work as a wardrobe stylist, stand-in, actress, print model, and production assistant. This range of experiences creates the perfect blend of skills to help facilitate conversations around boundaries and safety, while also being a cheerleader for the creative process.

Erin’s award-winning book, The Consent Guidebook, is an easy-to-follow guide that offers practical advice, from over 30 experts, for establishing boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others. In 2021, The Consent Guidebook was selected by AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) to receive their 2021 General Audience Book Award.

Message Erin at Erin@TheDatingAdviceGirl.com 

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INTIMACY COORDINATION RESUME (Partial List)

Find me on IMDB

2022 CSI : Vegas – 1 episode (Story of a Gun)

2022 Mayans MC – 2 episodes (The Calling of Saint Matthew, Dialogue with the Mirror)

2022 Black Boy Suffering is a Mood – short film

2022 Emotions – short film

2022 Halfsies – short film

TRAINING & CERTIFICATES

2021 Centuary Co – TV/Film Intimacy Coordinator Certification

2021 Mental Health First Aid – National Council for Behavioral Health

2020 Everybody Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) – Certified Sex Educator

2020  American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) – ANTE UP! Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) 

2020  New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Intersectionality: Power & Practice 

2020  New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Disability Justice Framework + HIV Prevention 

2020 Planned Parenthood – Addressing Porn in Sex Ed

2020 Planned Parenthood – Gender Inclusive Sex Education workshop

2020 GSS – Preventing Sexual Harassment for Employees – TPC TRAINING

2008 Entertainment TV Reporting – UCLA Extension

2001  University of Dayton – BS Business Administration

CONVENTIONS/EVENTS

2022 ClexaCon Festival (Queer BIPOC representation panelist)

2022 Outfest Film Festival (Intimacy Coordination for queer films and artists panel)

2020 Squad Festival (panel moderator/speaker)

2019  Ohayocon Anime Convention (panel moderator/panelist/speaker)

2018  Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)

2018  ConvergeCon (panelist/speaker)

2018  ClexaCon (panelist/speaker)

2017  Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)

2016  Sexual Health Expo LA & NYC workshop leader/speaker/press)

2015-2016  Bawdy Storytelling (live tweeting & instagramming for storytelling stage show)

2015  BIL Conference (workshop leader/speaker)

2015  The Pleasure Chest (online dating workshop/speaker)

2015  StartUp LA Worthy Women Panel (dating expert)

COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY

2022 Cal State LA (guest speaker to a graduate Interpersonal Communication class on consent, cancel culture, and intimacy coordination)

2018  East LA College, Los Angeles (consent panelist for Sexual Assault Awareness month)

2016  Inver Hills College, Minnesota (dating workshop facilitator)

2016  Cal State Northridge (dating coach/panelist on Student TV station CSUN On Point)

PERIODICALS

2020  Salt Lake Magazine (dating expert)

2019  Elle Magazine (dating expert)

2018  The Guardian UK (dating expert)

2015  Men’s Health (dating expert/guest columnist)

2013  Chicago Tribune (dating expert/guest columnist)

2013  Dayton Daily News (dating expert)

2013  University of Dayton Magazine (dating expert/alumnus)

PODCASTS

2022 Sluts & Scholars podcast (

2020  GirlBoner podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2020  Sex With Emily podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2019  The Feminist Book Club podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2019  The You Can Make A Difference Podcast with Mac McGregor (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2019  On The Wet Coast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018  The Finance Bunch (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018  Dumb Gay Politics podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018  GirlBoner Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2018  T&A Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)

2017  GirlBoner Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)

2017  The Love Script Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)

2017  Multiamory Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)

2016  The Biggest Problem in the Universe Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)

2016  Girl Boner (dating coach/podcast guest)

ONLINE

2018  ChicagoTribune.com (featured dating expert)

2018  VoyageLA.com (featured dating expert)

2018  Livestrong.com (dating expert)

2018  StashInvest.com (dating expert)

2017  Attract Any Woman Anywhere-Amazon (dating coach)

2017  DatingAdvice.com (featured dating coach)

2016  Buzzfeed.com (dating coach on ‘Is It Okay?’ Panel)

2016  Afterbuzz TV (segment guest/dating coach)

2016  Black Hollywood Live (dating coach)

2012-2015  SinglesWarehouse.co.uk (weekly dating coach/dating columnist)

2015  HRHero.com (dating columnist)

2015  GirlsAskGuys.com (dating columnist)

NON-PROFIT/CHARITY

2021-2022 Executive Director of Sex-Positive Los Angeles

2014-2016  WriteGirl NonProfit (volunteer & celeb interviewer for red carpet charity event)