Erin Tillman, CSE (she/her) is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, inclusive Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. She is the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. She is currently serving on the LA Local SAG-AFTRA Sexual Harassment committee and is a board member of the Junior Hollywood Radio & Television Society (JHRTS). In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Champion Award presented by the California National Organization for Women (NOW). For over 10 years, she has been dedicated to making conversations and experiences around consent, identity, and allyship less taboo and more easily digestible. She has contributed to Lifetime, Buzzfeed, Elle Magazine, Men’s Health, Washington Post, and more. Erin also has worked in the tv/film business for almost 20 years, both in front of, and behind the camera and has a vast knowledge of the inner-workings of tv/film production, including work as a wardrobe stylist, stand-in, actress, print model, and production assistant. This range of experiences creates the perfect blend of skills to help facilitate conversations around boundaries and safety, while also being a cheerleader for the creative process.
Erin’s award-winning book, The Consent Guidebook, is an easy-to-follow guide that offers practical advice, from over 30 experts, for establishing boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others. In 2021, The Consent Guidebook was selected by AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) to receive their 2021 General Audience Book Award.
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INTIMACY COORDINATION RESUME (Partial List)
Find me on IMDB
2022 Knox Goes Away – Brookstreet Pictures
2022 Greys Anatomy (ABC) – 1 episode (Love Don’t Cost a Thing)
2022 The Greatest Hits – Searchlight Pictures/Far Hills Productions/Groundswell Productions
2022 CSI : Vegas (CBS) – 1 episode (Story of a Gun)
2022 Mayans MC (FX) – 2 episodes (The Calling of Saint Matthew, Dialogue with the Mirror)
2022 Black Boy Suffering is a Mood – short film
2022 Emotions – short film
2022 Halfsies – short film
TRAINING & CERTIFICATES
2021 Centuary Co – TV/Film Intimacy Coordinator Certification
2021 Mental Health First Aid – National Council for Behavioral Health
2020 Everybody Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) – Certified Sex Educator
2020 American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) – ANTE UP! Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR)
2020 New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Intersectionality: Power & Practice
2020 New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Disability Justice Framework + HIV Prevention
2020 Planned Parenthood – Addressing Porn in Sex Ed
2020 Planned Parenthood – Gender Inclusive Sex Education workshop
2020 GSS – Preventing Sexual Harassment for Employees – TPC TRAINING
2008 Entertainment TV Reporting – UCLA Extension
2001 University of Dayton – BS Business Administration
TELEVISION
2022 Planet Sex w/Cara Delevigne (BBC3) – Featured Sexpert (Episode 5 – Monogomish)
2015 Big Women, Big Love (Lifetime) – Featured Sexpert
CONVENTIONS/EVENTS
2022 ClexaCon Festival (Queer BIPOC representation panelist)
2022 Outfest Film Festival (Intimacy Coordination for queer films and artists panel)
2020 Squad Festival (panel moderator/speaker)
2019 Ohayocon Anime Convention (panel moderator/panelist/speaker)
2018 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)
2018 ConvergeCon (panelist/speaker)
2018 ClexaCon (panelist/speaker)
2017 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)
2016 Sexual Health Expo LA & NYC workshop leader/speaker/press)
2015-2016 Bawdy Storytelling (live tweeting & instagramming for storytelling stage show)
2015 BIL Conference (workshop leader/speaker)
2015 The Pleasure Chest (online dating workshop/speaker)
2015 StartUp LA Worthy Women Panel (dating expert)
COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY
2022 USC Sex Week – Featured Sexpert
2022 Cal State LA (guest speaker to a graduate Interpersonal Communication class on consent, cancel culture, and intimacy coordination)
2018 East LA College, Los Angeles (consent panelist for Sexual Assault Awareness month)
2016 Inver Hills College, Minnesota (dating workshop facilitator)
2016 Cal State Northridge (dating coach/panelist on Student TV station CSUN On Point)
PERIODICALS
2020 Salt Lake Magazine (dating expert)
2019 Elle Magazine (dating expert)
2018 The Guardian UK (dating expert)
2015 Men’s Health (dating expert/guest columnist)
2013 Chicago Tribune (dating expert/guest columnist)
2013 Dayton Daily News (dating expert)
2013 University of Dayton Magazine (dating expert/alumnus)
PODCASTS
2022 Sluts & Scholars podcast
2020 GirlBoner podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2020 Sex With Emily podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 The Feminist Book Club podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 The You Can Make A Difference Podcast with Mac McGregor (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 On The Wet Coast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 The Finance Bunch (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 Dumb Gay Politics podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 GirlBoner Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 T&A Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2017 GirlBoner Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)
2017 The Love Script Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)
2017 Multiamory Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)
2016 The Biggest Problem in the Universe Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)
2016 Girl Boner (dating coach/podcast guest)
ONLINE
2018 ChicagoTribune.com (featured dating expert)
2018 VoyageLA.com (featured dating expert)
2018 Livestrong.com (dating expert)
2018 StashInvest.com (dating expert)
2017 Attract Any Woman Anywhere-Amazon (dating coach)
2017 DatingAdvice.com (featured dating coach)
2016 Buzzfeed.com (dating coach on ‘Is It Okay?’ Panel)
2016 Afterbuzz TV (segment guest/dating coach)
2016 Black Hollywood Live (dating coach)
2012-2015 SinglesWarehouse.co.uk (weekly dating coach/dating columnist)
2015 HRHero.com (dating columnist)
2015 GirlsAskGuys.com (dating columnist)
NON-PROFIT/CHARITY
2021-2022 Executive Director of Sex-Positive Los Angeles
2014-2016 WriteGirl NonProfit (volunteer & celeb interviewer for red carpet charity event)
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