Erin Tillman, CSE (she/her), CEO of Relational Equity Group, is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator, Certified Sex Educator, Consent & Connection Empowerment Coach, Author, and Speaker based in Los Angeles. She is currently serving on the LA Local SAG-AFTRA Sexual Harassment committee and is a board member of the Junior Hollywood Radio & Television Society (JHRTS). In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Champion Award presented by the California National Organization for Women (NOW). For over 10 years, she has been dedicated to making conversations and experiences around consent, identity, and allyship less taboo and more easily digestible. She has contributed to Lifetime, Buzzfeed, Elle Magazine, Men’s Health, Washington Post, and more. Erin also has worked in the tv/film business for 20+ years, both in front of, and behind the camera and has a vast knowledge of the inner-workings of tv/film production, including work as a wardrobe stylist, stand-in, actress, print model, and production assistant. Erin also has training and certifications in the areas of sexuality education, DEIB (diversity, equity, inclusion, belonging), Mental Health First Aid, and Kink/BDSM. This range of experiences creates the perfect blend of skills to help facilitate conversations around boundaries and safety, while also being a cheerleader for the creative process. Erin’s TV/Film Intimacy Coordination credits include projects for ABC, BET, CBS, FX, Hulu, Paramount+, Peacock, and Searchlight Pictures to name a few.
Erin’s award-winning book, The Consent Guidebook, is an easy-to-follow guide that offers practical advice, from over 30 experts, for establishing boundaries and respecting the boundaries of others. In 2021, The Consent Guidebook was selected by AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) to receive their 2021 General Audience Book Award.
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United Talent Agency (UTA) https://www.unitedtalent.com/talent/production-artist/Erin-Tillman
OR
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INTIMACY COORDINATOR RESUME (Partial List)
Find me on IMDB
2023-2025 Days of Our Lives (Peacock) – 20 episodes
2025 BelAir (Peacock) – 3 episodes
2024-2025 All’s Fair (Hulu) – 3 episodes
2024 Yellowstone (Paramount+) – 1 episode
2024 Dr. Odyssey (ABC) – 1 episode
2022-2023 Mayans MC (FX) – 4 episodes
2022 Planet Sex w/Cara Delevingne (BBC4) – episode #5
2022 Knox Goes Away – Brookstreet Pictures/Saban Films
2022 Greys Anatomy (ABC) – 1 episode (Love Don’t Cost a Thing)
2022 The Greatest Hits – Searchlight Pictures/Far Hills Productions/Groundswell Productions
2022 CSI : Vegas (CBS) – 1 episode (Story of a Gun)
2022 Black Boy Suffering is a Mood – short film
2022 Emotions – short film
2022 Halfsies – short film
TRAINING & CERTIFICATES
2025 Erika Hart – Sex Ed as Resistance certification
2023 Pepperdine – Diversity, Equity, Inclusion & Belonging (DEIB) certification
2021 Cintema – TV/Film Intimacy Coordinator certification
2021 National Council for Behavioral Health – Mental Health First Aid certification
2021 Foundations in Race, Intimacy, and Consent for BIPOC – Theatrical Intimacy Education (TIE)
2020 Everybody Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) – Sex Educator certification
2020 American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) – ANTE UP! Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR)
2020 New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Intersectionality: Power & Practice
2020 New Beginnings/Maine Dept. of Education – Disability Justice Framework + HIV Prevention
2020 Planned Parenthood – Addressing Porn in Sex Ed
2020 Planned Parenthood – Gender Inclusive Sex Education workshop
2020 GSS – Preventing Sexual Harassment for Employees – TPC TRAINING
2008 Entertainment TV Reporting – UCLA Extension
2001 University of Dayton – BS Business Administration
TELEVISION APPEARANCES
2022 Planet Sex w/Cara Delevigne (BBC3) – Featured Sexpert (Episode 5 – Monogomish)
2015 Big Women, Big Love (Lifetime) – Featured Sexpert
COLLEGE/UNIVERSITY
2025 Claremont Colege (Sexuality/Kink workshop facilitator
2025 Cal State Dominquez Hills (Sexuality workshop panelist)
2024 USC Sex Week (featured Sexpert for annual campus events)
2024 Cal State LA (guest speaker to a graduate Interpersonal Communication class on consent, cancel culture, and intimacy coordination)
2023 USC Sex Week (featured Sexpert for annual campus events)
2023 Cal State LA (Dating & Boundaries workshop facilitator)
2023 Cal State Northridge (Sexuality/Kink workshop facilitator)
2023 Cal State Dominquez Hills (Sexuality workshop panelist)
2022 USC Sex Week (featured Sexpert)
2022 Cal State LA (guest speaker to a graduate Interpersonal Communication class on consent, cancel culture, and intimacy coordination)
2021 Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising (FIDM) (Marketing & Branding guest speaker)
2018 East LA College, Los Angeles (consent panelist for Sexual Assault Awareness month)
2016 Inver Hills College, Minnesota (dating workshop facilitator)
2016 Cal State Northridge (dating coach/panelist on Student TV station CSUN On Point)
CONVENTIONS/CONFERENCES
2023 Desire Summit (non-monogamy workshop co-panelist)
2022 ClexaCon Festival (Queer BIPOC representation panelist)
2022 Outfest Film Festival (Intimacy Coordination for queer films and artists panel)
2020 Squad Festival (panel moderator/speaker)
2019 Ohayocon Anime Convention (panel moderator/panelist/speaker)
2018 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)
2018 ConvergeCon (panelist/speaker)
2018 ClexaCon (panelist/speaker)
2017 Catalyst Con (panelist/speaker)
2016 Sexual Health Expo LA & NYC workshop leader/speaker/press)
2015-2016 Bawdy Storytelling (live tweeting & instagramming for storytelling stage show)
2015 BIL Conference (workshop leader/speaker)
2015 The Pleasure Chest (online dating workshop/speaker)
2015 StartUp LA Worthy Women Panel (dating expert)
PODCASTS
2023 Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast (dating coach/intimacy coordinator/podcast guest)
2022 Sluts & Scholars podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)
2020 GirlBoner podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2020 Lez Hang Out podcast (dating & consent/podcast guest)
2020 Sex With Emily podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 The Feminist Book Club podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 The You Can Make A Difference Podcast with Mac McGregor (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2019 On The Wet Coast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 The Finance Bunch (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 Dumb Gay Politics podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 GirlBoner Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2018 T&A Podcast (dating & consent coach/podcast guest)
2017 GirlBoner Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)
2017 The Love Script Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)
2017 Multiamory Podcast (podcast guest/dating expert)
2016 The Biggest Problem in the Universe Podcast (dating coach/podcast guest)
2016 Girl Boner (dating coach/podcast guest)
ONLINE
2023 Bumble (featured dating expert in Bumble’s Buzz blog)
2018 ChicagoTribune.com (featured dating expert)
2018 VoyageLA.com (featured dating expert)
2018 Livestrong.com (dating expert)
2018 StashInvest.com (dating expert)
2017 Attract Any Woman Anywhere-Amazon (dating coach)
2017 DatingAdvice.com (featured dating coach)
2016 Buzzfeed.com (dating coach on ‘Is It Okay?’ Panel)
2016 Afterbuzz TV (segment guest/dating coach)
2016 Black Hollywood Live (dating coach)
2012-2015 SinglesWarehouse.co.uk (weekly dating coach/dating columnist)
2015 HRHero.com (dating columnist)
2015 GirlsAskGuys.com (dating columnist)
PERIODICALS
2020 Salt Lake Magazine (dating expert)
2019 Elle Magazine (dating expert)
2018 The Guardian UK (dating expert)
2015 Men’s Health (dating expert/guest columnist)
2013 Chicago Tribune (dating expert/guest columnist)
2013 Dayton Daily News (dating expert)
2013 University of Dayton Magazine (dating expert/alumnus)
NON-PROFIT/CHARITY
2022-2024 SAG-AFTRA LA Local Sexual Harassment Committee
2023-2024 Junior Hollywood Radio & TV Society (JHRTS) board member
2021-2023 Executive Director of Sex-Positive Los Angeles
2014-2016 WriteGirl NonProfit (volunteer & celeb interviewer for red carpet charity event)
Erin Tillman, CSE 